this is the least blind date i've ever seen but this is what i wanted to happen so like sure
1) other than cooking? kind of pulled the rug out from under me on this one jen. j-metal (passcode, lovebites, band maid but not in a creepy way, you know), action anime with like mecha and stuff, gacha games i guess? i had a good conversation with someone on the app about them recently even if it was mostly just me yelling about her boyfriend and his waifus. fuck, i sound like an enormous weeb. i'm trusting you to pretty this answer up.
2) i mean yeah there's probably like a whole tier of places that's appropriate for first dates? and everything not on that tier is probably a bad idea. like it shouldn't be too fancy of a restaurant but it sure as hell shouldn't be fast food. bars are skeezy and there are better places to go to get to know someone. movies also sound pretty easy to bail from. every place sounds easy to bail from if you're bad enough at dating.
3) none of the big 8 food allergens at least. that covers like what, most of food? i should be fine with anything is the point.
you really didn't have to go through all this trouble. i'll, um. i'll come up with questions of my own and let you know.
[ rubbing her forehead. hoo boy, this will take even more work. hurray! she's not even able to sit down and appreciate any of this information on a personal level because of that, so she'll have to look into it later. ]
Don't worry about it. I think I can work with this. Just call me cupid! Or at least, call me committed. I'm just going to ask her to answer the same questions in return. Seems fair, right? You can save the rest for the actual date. Call it thinking ahead.
It's not like I'm making any guarantees here. She still has to say yes. But if I didn't try to help you make a dent in all that negativity I'd be a terrible role model.
I'm going to be a star someday. That's like being a lot of people's suns.
[ so she's not saying "no", but avoiding going back to that analogy. ugh, why did she bring it up in the first place? she didn't like the dude THAT much. ]
Anyway, Alison answered back. I think you'll do fine! She's got the same idea as you for dating places, so no problems there. A wide culinary pallet. She loves the outdoors, museums, zoos. Traveling too. (She even wants to go to Japan someday. Bonus!) Oh, and she knows a thing or three about making robots. That could be a fun topic to bring up.
Give me the green light to pass on your number, and I'll let you two take it from there. Deal?
That depends. I don't think I'll be able to jump in if I hear you crashing and burning, but I may be able to run damage control so you don't end up banned from anywhere.
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but this is what i wanted to happen so like sure
1) other than cooking? kind of pulled the rug out from under me on this one jen. j-metal (passcode, lovebites, band maid but not in a creepy way, you know), action anime with like mecha and stuff, gacha games i guess? i had a good conversation with someone on the app about them recently even if it was mostly just me yelling about her boyfriend and his waifus. fuck, i sound like an enormous weeb. i'm trusting you to pretty this answer up.
2) i mean yeah there's probably like a whole tier of places that's appropriate for first dates? and everything not on that tier is probably a bad idea. like it shouldn't be too fancy of a restaurant but it sure as hell shouldn't be fast food. bars are skeezy and there are better places to go to get to know someone. movies also sound pretty easy to bail from. every place sounds easy to bail from if you're bad enough at dating.
3) none of the big 8 food allergens at least. that covers like what, most of food? i should be fine with anything is the point.
you really didn't have to go through all this trouble. i'll, um. i'll come up with questions of my own and let you know.
BAND-MAID!!
Don't worry about it. I think I can work with this.
Just call me cupid!
Or at least, call me committed.
I'm just going to ask her to answer the same questions in return.
Seems fair, right?
You can save the rest for the actual date. Call it thinking ahead.
i'd apologize but i'm not sorry
i know those answers were shit, i know i don't do a lot that isn't nerdy garbage or cooking, i know i'm asking a lot of you
i'm still working on dealing with you being this nice to me
I love that group ngl
She still has to say yes.
But if I didn't try to help you make a dent in all that negativity I'd be a terrible role model.
good excellent
don't tell me YOU'RE trying to be my sun
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That's like being a lot of people's suns.
[ so she's not saying "no", but avoiding going back to that analogy. ugh, why did she bring it up in the first place? she didn't like the dude THAT much. ]
2/2 because I can
She's got the same idea as you for dating places, so no problems there.
A wide culinary pallet.
She loves the outdoors, museums, zoos. Traveling too. (She even wants to go to Japan someday. Bonus!)
Oh, and she knows a thing or three about making robots. That could be a fun topic to bring up.
Give me the green light to pass on your number, and I'll let you two take it from there. Deal?
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maybe this won't be a disaster.
all right yeah give her my number, we'll see where this takes us.
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Great! Look forward to hearing from her soon.
Oh, by the way, I already sent her your photo. She thinks you're cute.
Just a little thing to prep you for the encounter.
See you later~!
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god i hope it was at least a good one
thanks. i guess. maybe i should hold off until the end of this date before i decide if i should thank you
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[ it might be worth questioning why she kept it around afterward. oh well. ]
Too late, you already thanked me! And, for the record, you're welcome.
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the blue hair is gonna be harder to explain
but if she's on here too then that won't be too bad
she is on the app too, right
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will you still want me to tell you how it went or are you gonna be able to figure that out from all the spying you'll be doing
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A wingman's work is never appreciated.
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how involved of a wingman do you plan to be in this
exactly
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I don't think I'll be able to jump in if I hear you crashing and burning, but I may be able to run damage control so you don't end up banned from anywhere.
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you know what actually don't answer that
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Anyway, good luck to you two. The rest is on your hands here on out.